YOUR LEGACY, YOUR JUNK, WHOSE PROBLEM?

Have you ever been called upon to clean up the family home of an aging or departed loved one?  If so, you understand what this process entails, and have observed the unbelievable amounts of JUNK that people accumulate over their lifetimes.

If you have not yet had this experience, let me briefly summarize the process:   a loved one needs to move into an assisted living facility for medical reasons (or she/he has passed on).  The actual clean-out of this person's home begins with a few family and friends going through the house searching for "treasures," i.e. junk they either want to keep or think they can sell for big bucks.

Then they begin to clear out the remaining household goods and personal effects.  And clear out.  And clear out some more, over weeks and sometimes months, until finally, in desperation to be done with the mess, the relatives and friends shackled with this chore pitch the remaining household items into trash bags without further thought on their usefulness or sentimental value.

By this time, EVERYTHING is junk.

Why such a heavy topic for a Monday morning?

I want you to understand WHY decluttering an estate is so difficult:  the original owners of this junk did not recycle, give away, or throw out enough stuff over their lifetimes.   In short, THEY KEPT TOO MUCH.

And I want to prevent YOU from doing this to your loved ones.  

Truly, leaving a legacy of junk is slapping your family and friends in the face.  Sure, you may be only 28 (or 36, or 55, or 72) right now, but if you can't motivate yourself to clean up your junk FOR yourself, at least do it for the people you care about, so that they won't be left with the fallout of a lifetime's worth of your lack of self-management.

NOW is the time to begin creating the habits of uncluttered living: throwing out genuine trash, recycling what can be recycled, giving things away you're no longer using, and keeping up with regular maintenance of your possessions. 

These small jobs are part of LIFE.  But when people ignore them (and frankly, most people do ignore them), stuff piles up, and a lifetime's worth of accumulation is sheer torture for family and friends to have to process at an already  stressful time in their lives (losing you, or placing you in assisted living).

An easy way to begin?

When you bring home a new purchase, get rid of something in your home approximately the same size, that takes up the same space.  The "one in, one out" rule.  If you bring home a new pair of slacks, throw away a ripped one (or donate one that has "shrunk" and no longer fits).

That is so simple: one thing comes in, one thing goes out.

You'll save your family and friends weeks of torture by this simple little habit.

May you live a long and blessed life filled with friendship, love, and happiness, not JUNK!
 

Christmas

Merry Christmas!

To keep your home from becoming overrun with holiday gifts, do the following today:

1. Empty the trash as soon as it's ALMOST full. Don't wait until it's overflowing with wrinkled gift wrap and plastic packaging.

2. With each new gift you receive, get rid of some other thing in your home that's approximately the same size. Go put those things in a plastic bag NOW and put them in your car to donate to a thrift store on your way to work tomorrow.

3. Restrain yourself at the after Christmas sales. You don't need any more stuff to store for the next 12 months.

Blessings on you this holy season!